How To Talk to Someone With Dementia

If you have a family member or friend with Alzheimer's disease or dementia, you may have experienced (or are anticipating) the point in their illness when communicating becomes more difficult. 

However painful this moment may be, with a little effort and patience, it is still possible to continue communicating with your loved one. Here, we'll outline some of the communication issues that you can expect from someone experiencing memory loss, as well as some tips on how to talk to someone with dementia or Alzheimer's. 

What To Expect When Talking to Someone With Memory Loss

Alzheimer's and dementia are progressive diseases, and as a result, everyone's symptoms and communication patterns will look different. The following are examples of common communication-related symptoms that you can expect from someone experiencing memory loss:

  • Not being able to find the right word

  • Describing an object rather than using its name

  • Repeating themselves

  • Losing their train of thought

  • Becoming less active in conversation, or initiating conversation less

  • Disorganized speech

  • Not being able to remember what was said to them

Communicating With Dementia Patients

The aforementioned symptoms can make talking with a dementia patient difficult, but not impossible. The following guidelines are a good starting point for talking to and learning how to help dementia patients feel understood and heard:

  • Don't correct or argue with them

  • Speak clearly and slowly

  • Keep your sentences simple and short

  • Offer choices or yes/no questions

  • When asking questions or giving instructions, focus on one concept at a time

  • Be patient

  • Maintain eye contact

  • Offer reassurance or encouragement if they seem to be struggling to express themselves

  • Use visual cues and/or gestures

  • Minimize distractions, such as background noise

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